Women Have Learned To Live Without Men!
Women have learned to live without men!
Between Oprah’s show on how women are leaving their husbands and turning to other women and the changing role of men in the home and society, modern man has lost his sense of purpose and role.
Do not get me wrong. I do not condone the discriminatory practices againest women of the past. I do believe that the change in expectations and roles have caused men to lose their sense of masculinity.
At the same time that women in the 40’s and 50’s have learned to exist wthout us, females in the 27 to 37 age group have reverted to rely on men for more of the traditional functions.
The number one comment I hear when speaking to single older women is they cannot get a guy their age because the guys their age are going going out and marrying younger women.
It is not natural for a 52 year old man to marry a 30 year old woman. Why has this trend developed?
Older men have lost their place in relationships with women their own age. On the other hand, many younger women have reverted back to a form of the traditional values. They are looking for guys who know how to treat them well. They realize that if they meet a well to do older man, they will get their emotional and financial needs met.
Women in the baby boomer and X generation need to understand that the war is over. The men of today realize the wrongs of the past. Society has given women the professional and personal equality they so richly deserve.
Women need to put down their weapons and welcome men back into their lives. Women need to realize that there are men out there who are great fathers, partners, lovers and friends. Stop putting men who were raised to to have manners as a chauvanist and see the behavior for what it is. That is to show the women they love that he wants to take care of her and treat her like the gift she is.
A man needs to have an answer to the question “What is my place in this relationship?” If a man does not know how to answer this question, they will run as far and as fast as he can
The woman of today needs to realize that the man of today needs to feel like a man. That does not mean that women are to be diminished. It means that a man needs to see that he is relied upon by the women in his life.
Baby boomer and Gen X guys want to be with women who are their own age and share the same priorities. Baby boomer and Gen X guys also want to be relied on for the things that males have been hardwired to provide since the beginning of time.
How can both sexes get better so that we can live more balanced lives?
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